No, no, no, you don’t need to feel guilty.

I have no way shared my worst crap, the stuff that people could start to pick apart and victim shame me about. I’ve only told the “unambiguous” total stranger stories. Sadly, those are the only stories a lot of the world seems ready to not victim-shame women about. Even still, I was expecting the “what were you wearing” questions and was pleasantly surprised I didn’t get any.

I am not ready to deal with the blow-back from other incidents.