Haha! I think Jay makes a very good point, despite his facetiousness. Acceptance can equal resignation in the face of facts.

But also, Danna Colman , I was not getting the self love=self friendship message from your exchanges with Heath Houston . It seems to me that Heath has eloquently expressed his self-awareness, self-confidence, and self-acceptance. Therefore, I thought you were thinking that self love was something more than this.

After all, one can be friends with oneself and still wish to change one’s circumstances.